Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus, or NPH, is a condition usually affecting older people that can go undiagnosed, sometimes for many years. Symptoms include difficulties in walking, confusion and memory problems similar to dementia, and urinary incontinence. Depression is also often associated with it. If treated, these symptoms may be alleviated or even go away completely. Many people have never heard of NPH and their GPs may not have come across it. If someone has a diagnosis they and their families can be left feeling isolated as they don’t know anyone else with the condition. They may also have lots of unanswered questions as we recently found out through the Shine50Plus project!
The project has recently facilitated a meeting of people with NPH and their spouses at the home of a Shine member in Oxfordshire. People came from as far away as Leicester and Somerset to have the opportunity to share information and experiences. We were lucky to have the expert advice on hand of Rosemary Ellis, who was employed by Shine as a Senior Health Adviser for many years and now volunteers for us. With Rosemary’s help the group is putting together a list of Frequently Asked Questions about NPH which we hope can be made available to people who are newly diagnosed. The group is also keen to set up a nationwide peer support network for people with NPH. So watch this space as NPH Support gets going!
It is Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus Awareness Week! Hear what it is like living with these conditions
Shine50Plus members belonging to the Crafty Silver Dreamers, part of the Shine’s Silver Dreams Project, met together for the first time at Shine’s national office in Peterborough on 15th October to complete the blanket they have been working towards for the last 6 months by knitting squares. They also took this opportunity to “wear yellow and Shine” to mark the beginning of Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus Awareness Week (19th – 26th October). We were assisted by members of Handmade in Peterborough who kindly came in to give us a much needed hand with the stitching. Other craft items made by our members including greetings cards, bunting and a jigsaw as well as knitted items were put on display and, along with the completed blanket, will be sold in our charity shops.
The Crafty Silver Dreamers was the inspiration of Jackie Moore whose enthusiasm and commitment to helping others has been unwavering despite her own health problems associated with hydrocephalus. Through this “microvolunteering” activity (people can do as much or as little as they want from the comfort of their own homes) lots of connections have been made between members who have been supporting each other through all sorts of difficulties associated with their conditions, including social isolation. Some firm friendships have been established – all at a distance. People have also been encouraged to take up crafting again or as a new interest.
Keep on crafting you Crafty Silver Dreamers!!!
This is the question frequently asked in the Shine50Plus Group on Facebook by our older members with spina bifida and/or hydrocephalus. It is asked about everything from pain in parts of the body only people with spina bifida experience to bumpy pavements for those with mobility difficulties. And there are always replies showing people are indeed not alone. But they didn’t know this before joining the Group, which now has over 60 members from all parts of the country, many of whom visit the Group daily.
Sharing can help
Online peer-to-peer support for those who have access to it can be life-changing. One of our members found out in the Group about a medical procedure that his GP had dismissed as unsuitable. What he learnt from others in the Group gave him the confidence to pursue this option which has proved successful and completely transformed his quality of life.
Members have also been sharing their experiences of extended hospital stays as children which has certainly been an eye opener for the rest of us! Tin dinner plates and outside wards used to be the order of the day back in the 1940s and 50s. Things have certainly changed since then.
Margaret Twyford in her late husband Alan’s corner of the garden
I was born with Spina Bifida in 1945 and there was a huge difference between the experiences of those of us born then and those born after us. By the 1960s the shunt had been invented and there were a range of surgical procedures available but we managed and survived without. When I was a baby my parents were told “she will never walk, nothing can be done”. My grandmother, who was very determined, put dining room chairs back to back for me to walk through, and I ended up walking and was given knee callipers at five years old. I lived in a road with a primary school, but I wasn’t allowed to go, in case I got knocked over in the playground. There were no disposable incontinence aids, and I was in nappies until the age of thirteen which my parents had to pay for as well as lots of other things without support from benefits such as Disability Living Allowance.There was little information available to help us understand my disability. I was never told what Hydrocephalus was and wondered why, every so often, someone at a residential school I went to came to measure my head! As I got older I faced more challenges, for instance when it came to finding a job, the D.R.O (Disabled Resettlement Officer) would send me off for interviews, and I would arrive to find a flight of stairs to negotiate. My surgeon was excellent, but some of his young registrars knew little about Spina Bifida. On one occasion I was asked “what questions should I be asking you?” and “when did you get Spina Bifida?” In 1971 I got married to a man who also had Spina Bifida; his parents had been told “you don’t get girls with Spina Bifida”! I look back at that time of my life and reflect at the way it has changed, and not always for the better.
I have just returned from a couple of days away recording the experiences of some of our Shine50Plus members to raise awareness of spina bifida and hydrocephalus. Growing up with spina bifida in the 1960s was a very different experience to that of children today. For a start their parents (and sometimes they themselves) were told they wouldn’t reach adulthood or “make old bones”. This seems to have spurred some families on to proving the professionals wrong and making sure their children were as physically fit and independent as they could possibly be. Just getting on with it and no excuses made were the attitudes of the day. Going to a specialist boarding school at a young age was not uncommon. These were strict establishments that sometimes didn’t allow parents to visit very often but which gave children the skills to manage independently that have carried them through into adulthood and middle age. Many contemporaries have died along the way due to medical complications that arise with spina bifida. Most people have had more operations than they can remember, on their feet, legs, back and for bladder and bowel management. Tissue damage in pressure areas is a nightmare. But life goes on and people get jobs and have careers, get made redundant, fall in love, get married, have children, get divorced, become become single parents, lose a spouse, care for their elderly parents and grandchildren or live the single life to the full. As one of our members said “I’m just ordinary” – but he has had an extraordinary life.
Handmade Benny Bear card
It’s great to see the creative enthusiasm of our members, as the Crafty Silver Dreamers, led by Jackie Moore, Shine50Plus volunteer, join together across the country to collaborate on card-making and knitting activities to raise awareness of older people living with spina bifida and hydrocephalus and to make links with the younger ones. Fabulous handmade cards are now available for Shine to promote the Benny Bear Club for young children and to use for fundraising. People are sending in their knitted squares to make our cosy Shine50Plus blanket. This will form the centrepiece of a display in one of our south coast charity shops later in the year. Before that some of the Crafty Silver Dreamers are hoping to meet in person (none of them have met yet!) at Shine HQ in Peterborough to sew their blanket squares together and share all things crafty.